Groom's Wedding Planning
A Groom’s Guide To Wedding Planning
By Dave Smith
When it comes to weddings, the focus is usually on the
bride. Everyone thinks of it as her special day, that event
she’s been looking forward to since she was a child and the
time when she’ll be the center of attention as she embarks on
a new life. But what about the groom? It’s his day too, and
one that he should plan just as carefully as the bride. Ideally it will
be a once-in-a-lifetime occasion for both bride and groom, so they
should share the planning and the enjoyment of that magical day
equally!
Future grooms, follow these steps as you prepare for your to make it a
truly special occasion:
1. Select the Groomsmen
Choosing the groomsmen is an important task and should be done at least
a year prior to the wedding. (Plan to have one usher for every fifty
guests.) Once you’ve settled on who the groomsmen will be,
choose their outfits. Later you will also want to buy gifts for the men
in your party. These could include cuff links, a money clip, a flask,
or another gift that will commemorate the occasion with a touch of
class.
2. Make your Guest List
You and your bride will put together separate guest lists, so think
about who you want to invite. Be sure to consider family, friends, and
co-workers, and consult with close relatives to confirm that you
haven’t left anyone out.
3. Reserve the Location
Don’t hesitate to take the initiative in finding possible
sites for the ceremony and/or the reception. Your fiancee will
appreciate your efforts since this can be an overwhelming,
time-consuming task! Discuss with her what your budget and style are
and start searching. The sooner you find the right place and reserve,
the more likely you are to get the date you want.
4. Plan the Honeymoon
Make your bride happy by researching honeymoon destinations and
presenting her with some detailed itineraries of possible trips.
She’ll know she’s picked a winner if you do your
honeymoon homework and come prepared with good travel ideas!
5. Order your Bands
Don’t leave this until the last minute. Go with your bride to
pick them out and get fitted so that you have them safe in hand in time
for the wedding. Also, leave some time between the time you receive
them and the day in case you need a last-minute adjustment. If the
jeweler gets the sizing wrong you’ll need time to fix it.
6. Get your Marriage License
Depending on where you live this can be a lengthy process that will
include blood tests and possibly other medical tests. Begin researching
early to determine exactly what is required in your state and how long
you should expect the process to take.
So remember, your day isn’t just for her –
it’s YOUR special day too! Make it an occasion
you’ll always cherish by planning ahead and following these
simple steps.
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